陶晶莹 《我爱故我在》 新书预购开跑啦！

书中精彩片段：

◆ 送朋友進無間地獄

A在找我們泣訴時，看起來是那麼楚楚可憐、心意已決，決定要離開那渾球！
後來，A還是和那男人復合了。
通常，如果姊妹淘開始執迷不悟，妳也只能默默地目送她進去那無間地獄。

◆ 把結婚生子當成使命，而不是天命。

全球人口已經夠多，好男人出現速度又不成正比；借精未婚生子又是太巨大不可測的未知……女人們或許應該把結婚生子當成使命，而不是天命。
人生中有許多使命，可以選擇要不要扛。
聖女貞德和花木蘭，選擇了當時她們認為該接下的使命，而不是接受可能在當時更不可抗逆的天命──結婚生子。

◆ 沒玩夠先別結婚

當你看過、聽過、玩過、冒險過、失去過、得到過、控制過、失控過、
野過、瘋過，你才會甘願地去經營一段穩定的關係。

◆ 向偷情的男人們學習

我並不鼓勵外遇、偷情。此事能免則免。但若真的遇上了，請女人們向偷情的
男人們學習──不主動坦白，不積極選擇，吃完擦乾淨，拍拍屁股回家。

◆人生許多態度，越早想清楚越好。比如說，「承認」。

承認愛一個人，承認不愛一個人，承認愛上一個不愛你的人，承認愛上一個不適合你的人；承認妳愛他只是寂寞得要死；承認妳想結婚只是怕不嫁別人會用異樣眼光看妳；承認你就是喜歡波大無腦的花痴；承認你愛她愛得很卑微……
怎樣，難不難？

◆ 愛的付出

付出的不見得能收回，但在愛中，不付出一定得不到真正的幸福。

◆ 讓人焦慮的公平

男女平權主義對於女人在床上「服侍」男人一定很倒彈。但我認為，
「那種」男女平權論調對兩性關係不但沒幫助，反而讓兩性更焦慮。

◆ 婚前一定要有性行為

平常大家會說，施比受更有福，這樣的一句話，為何不能應用在性行為上？
他媽的這個社會對性的壓抑導致性知識貧乏真是害死多少男男女女！去！

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My Inspiring Senior

Sitting in front of her disobedient Aku-CEpat-Rosak laptop, she plugs and unplugs her adapter, looks a bit frustrated - probably worrying about her piles of work - but does not lose her temper. After a tug of war with Mr. Aku, she gives up and still does not show slight anger. Oh, she just had a tiring day and has deadlines ahead.

I have been admiring this senior - not in a romantic way duh - since long ago. Because she endures longer than the Everlasting Energizer Bunny.

During our high school days, she was never the most outstanding person. She worked very hard, behind the scenes. She seldom got on stage and received applauses like we did. While people were leaving the group due to stress and failures, she stood firmly in her position working day and night and sometimes midnights. Never asked for more and never did less.

And her lips maintained curving up.

She is still the same person. Never ending routine such in radio shows, drama scripts, column articles and live events consume her time but not her passion. Despite countless editings, she treats her script in full enthusiasm and shares me her joy. After years of being a music chart DJ, her eyes still sparkle when she talks about Evan Yo's latest album.

The only difference is she's now dazzlingly bright.

Having a kind and loving heart, she is not always treated the same way. *Curse gao gao those who hurt her* She falls a lot. She must have cried too. You know, pisces. Don't worry though. She will come back in her perfect state and get ready for her next fight.

With her lips upward.

I meant it when I said "I salute you". Not just because of being a 豬籠草. XD